January 16, 2011

CRYSTAL CLEAR BEST FRIEND?

You might be ruminating that why i am so keen on writing about friends nowadays..but,at present,there is something going on in my life that makes me feel like doing so..We all want friends,more and more stupendously "imperfect" friends.Right,i said "imperfect",because it is a perceptible datum that our friends are always 'imperfect' i.e before meeting them or after screwing up with them or even when we are dating them,they never become perfect "individually"!So,quite naturally,our foes are all "perfect"!!
So,what is the reason of this imperfection??
It is an uncanny question with an elementary answer!Read on!

Since childhood we all have atypical class of friends.Some are "hi,hello" friends,some "Bus" friends,some "Eye contact(this list is very colossal in my case:))" friends,some "terrace" friends and the list goes on but it never cease!So,who exactly is our best friend?Do anyone of you(including me) know the exact meaning of "best" friend?Maybe no,maybe yes!
We meet,we laugh,we cry,we study,we roam,we fight,we sort out,we fight again,we sort out again and what we see after some time is that we start saying him "Yaar tu mera best friend hai".
My mother use to say me "If,ever in life,you get one true friend just feel proud of yourself because what you have achieved is what 99% of people are deprived of throughout their life circle"..
Your best friend is the person who is "imperfect" but whose imperfections are just "perfect" for you,is sometimes fake but only for you,under whose company you just want to succumb all your worries to him to solve them in any case,you do not know anything in your exam and when you call him   he says "Tune itna to kara hai,mai to bas ab book uthane ja raha hu,you don't take tension kal saath me fail honge",seeing him after a long time would make you jump out of your bed,when you want to die he don't stop you but admit to die with,and for,you,his single lie would hurt you a little but not "affect" you(as you know he is always right),you say you like a girl and he says "Saale,ab iska number hai" and then help you in getting her,who understands you when you are at your "dumbest" silence,who never points out your "imperfections" but always make you feel they are "perfect" and without your knowing make you just "perfectly fine"..:)This is what best friend is all about..now,i am sure,you must be getting my "elementary answer"..

I really feel deuced in getting you..

So,in the end i just want to say you might have numerous hello in buses and myriad eye contact on terrace but those would not lead you succumb your worries..Never leave your best friend,put him to your most stringent "tests",let him fail,let him fail again..Who knows you might end up making "imperfect" him "perfectly" yours..:))).
                            Until next time,it is bye from my side..Be good and keep smiling!!!!

    

3 comments:

nisha said...

so so sweet n very very true....i love it.....

Unknown said...

Thank you nisha..:)

Sanjal said...

i tooooooooo fell gooooood after reading diz..nyc n good 1....... really