March 7, 2014

The beauty of being a woman.

Woman, a term used to coin a female human, definitely does not mean "woo-man". She is a mother, a sister, a daughter, a wife, a friend and more importantly, she is human. In today's world though, she's Nirbhaya too.
Whatever you give a woman, she is going to multiply it. If you give her a sperm, she will give you a baby. If you give her a house, she will give you a home.If you give her your respect, she will give you her life. If you give her liberty, she will give you her love but if you give her any wrong, she will give you a whole lot of smashing.

 The journey of being a woman in INDIA-

She is born. She is happy. But, her family wanted a son. She didn't know it now, for she is just a child. She craves for her father's lap, but silently acknowledges when her father's lap is occupied by her own little brother, for she is told that she is a good sister. Now, she goes to school, but not the same as her brothers', for she is told that it involves a lot of money and she is a good daughter. Now, she is a little grown up, but is told not to wear a skirt, for she is told that she is a good girl. She is stared shamelessly by an unknown, but she is told to remain silent, for she is a timid character. Now, she enters her womanhood, and is told to leave her home and get married to someone she don't really know. She is now a wife, and no longer a daughter, for she is told that it is her destiny. She now feels a kick in her womb, and her whole world changes. She is now a mother. She spent her whole life feeding her children her own meal, but at the winter of her life, she has her eyes stuck on the door of the hospital waiting for that last meal from them. A meal that can let her eyes shut down. But that meal never came.Facing all this, there she is, strong and shining like a diamond!

 Woman- An eternal smile.

 Having to occupy so many roles throughout her endearing journey, she never complains and she never lets her smile fade away. Not only does she smiles throughout, she endures, and smiles. A world without her smile is like a body with no heart. That is the beauty of being her. Knowing the reality of the world in which she lives in, still managing that smile is a brave thing to do. It is a thing only some could do and it is definitely a thing no man can do.

Women- Strength Personified.

When we see a woman, we generally picture her crying over small issues say, for example, watching  an emotional movie. But, the very fact of her crying does not make her timid. In fact, it makes her even stronger due to the fact that she does not pretend to be someone she is not. Not everyone can do that.
 She might be enduring the pain this world is giving her, but when she decides to raise her voice, the whole world listens She is a single mother, and a proud one too. She is a little overweight but she is always inspirational. 

In the end, little things like her grace, care, temper, compassion, and even unpredictible emotions at time, all
 of it makes her more beautiful. And, to be the one to bring a new life into this world, makes her beauty unparalleled.

Nobody should try to limit the things a woman could or should do. What we need today is not giving woman a special status, but giving her the liberty to explore those limitations. That's all she needs.
So, in the starting the, question was, "What is the beauty of being a woman?". In the end, it should rather be, "Is there any beauty without a woman?"

Written by-Naman Bansal.

6 comments:

Sanjal Jaiswal said...

Really nice.. Loved Itt. :)

Unknown said...

yaar its realy nice.....superb

Unknown said...

Hey..thank You ladies..and anushka..special thanks to you..:)

vishal said...

Bhai so true and deep ....
great work dude.....
You have great potential...do make it large...

Unknown said...

@vishal Singh~~ Thank u bro..:)

Unknown said...

nice post :)